Isaac’s Illness

I’ve been letting Isaac take care of neopagan.net for so long, I almost forgot about our own blog. But he’s not available to update y’all, so it’s my turn.

If you haven’t already heard from our Facebook page or other sources, Isaac’s been in the hospital since last Wednesday. He’s been diagnosed with colorectal cancer, with tumors in his rectum.

This is a little different than the more common type of colon cancer. In fact, he had a colonoscopy last year and had no polyps or anything like that. What he has is called squamous cell carcinoma—more like a skin cancer—which accounts for less than 5% of colon cancers.  Yes, my darling really is a rare pain in the butt.

On the upside, it’s very treatable with chemo and radiation, so surgery may not be necessary. This is a good thing, as surgery in that location is not easy to repair.

Right now they are treating him with heavy antibiotics. Cysts, which had formed around the tumors, were causing him a great deal of pain, which is what got him to the doctor to begin with. The cysts may need to be drained, but they need to get his infections reduced before doing anything invasive like that. However, they are shrinking now and his pain is much, much reduced. He’s having more tests on Tuesday and Wednesday to make sure the docs aren’t overlooking anything. Also, his lung function is down, and they want to determine if he has COPD, which would be a permanent problem. I’m hoping he’ll be home Thursday, but we just don’t know.

Many people have asked how they can help.

Absolutely send your good wishes and healing energies. Concentrate on shrinking the tumors, increasing his stamina, and increasing his lung function. While you’re at it, send me some strength. Along with this stress, I’m getting over the flu, and until I do, I can’t even visit him in the hospital. Needless to say, I miss him terribly.

Yes, we have health insurance from my employer, although, of course, it won’t cover everything, and won’t cover lost income. Since I work on commission, and haven’t been working, my November income will be abysmal. Thus, if you feel moved to hit that “donate” button, we’d be very grateful, as will our landlady.

We’re trying to keep people up-to-date on our Facebook page, but if FB isn’t your thing (I’ve only been on it for a few months myself) I will also post updates here. Yeah, right here, the sensible place to put it!

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Hubby Hubby

In keeping with the food theme…

Ben and Jerry’s has teamed up with Freedom to Marry and has renamed their Chubby Hubby flavor as Hubby Hubby to “celebrate Vermont and all the other great states where loving couples of all kinds are free to marry legally.”

Wouldn’t it be great if impertinent pertinent portions of the Constitution or other inspiring texts (news articles, whatever informs and inspires) were handed out as party favors to be read out loud at Hubby Hubby ice cream parties (not just for gays, of course), after which everyone walked off the calories while wearing marriage rights T-Shirts?

Elsewhere in current events…Democrats and Gays seek to repeal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), heh. I say heh because DOMA was signed by Democratic President Bill Clinton. Repealing DOMA isn’t a Democrat vs. Republican thing as much as it is a civil rights thing. Some gay politicians are not backing the bill because they don’t believe it has enough political support at this time. They want to play it safe.

Paradigm shifting isn’t “safe,” of course, and it hardly ever seems to have enough support, initially, thanks to tyranny of the majority. Doesn’t mean one doesn’t try and get the ball rolling in the process.

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Cooking up Something New

I’ve moved my musings about food and cooking over to my very own blog, Home Cook: In and Around Phaedra’s Kitchen. I put it up a couple of weeks ago just to experiment with some new software, but I’ve had so much fun with it, we’re going to keep it permanently.

There’s about half a dozen posts up right now, so come visit and comment.

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Guinness Lets Us Down

Did you know that liquor companies are using their profits to kill health care reform in Congress?

I just signed a customer complaint form to the liquor company that makes Bailey’s, Guinness and Johnnie Walker, for running an online campaign attacking the health care bills before Congress.

Can you sign the form, too?

I’m not going to drink Guinness again until they stop this campaign against health care reform! That’s what I told them, and I hope you’ll join me.

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